You will be able to prepare a teenager for handling their own money and spotting traps.
Arjun is fourteen. He has a phone, a bank card, a gaming account with Priya's card saved in it from two years ago, and a group chat where someone is always selling something. Last month a S$60 charge appeared on Priya's card statement for in-game currency. Arjun said he thought it was coming out of his own savings. He may even have believed it.
By the teenage years, children are spending real money in places parents cannot see. The jar of coins from lesson 6.1 and the spend, save and give split from lesson 6.2 were practice. This stage is the dress rehearsal for adult life, while the stakes are still small and you are still nearby to help.
The most useful step at this age is to give your teenager responsibility for a real monthly cost that you currently pay. School meals and transport are a natural place to start, because they are regular, necessary and easy to estimate.
Work out with your teenager what those costs come to in a typical month. For Arjun, in this example, recess and lunches at school plus his bus and MRT fares come to about S$160 a month. Instead of handing over money each day, Priya transfers S$160 into his own account on the first of the month, and from then on it is his job.
He will make mistakes. Some months he will run short in the last week because he bought bubble tea with friends three times. Decide in advance what happens then. A sensible rule is that you will lend him the money to eat, but it comes off next month's amount. Over a few months, he learns to look at his balance before he spends, which many adults never quite learn.
Increase the scope as they handle it well. A teenager who manages meals and transport for a term might take on their phone bill or clothes next.
A part-time or holiday job teaches something no amount of explanation can: what an hour of effort is worth. A teenager who spends six hours serving at a cafe or helping at a tuition centre, and then sees the pay, starts converting prices into hours. A S$90 pair of sneakers becomes a full Saturday of work. Lesson 7.2 of How money works, Price a decision in hours of work and years of growth, teaches adults the same trick.
There are rules about the work young people can do and at what age, which the Ministry of Manpower sets out on its website. Check them, and check the employer, before your teenager starts.
When the first pay arrives, sit down and plan what happens to it, with your teenager doing most of the talking. How much will they spend, how much will they save, and what are they saving for?
Much of a teenager's spending happens on a phone, and it is designed to feel painless.
In-game purchases are the obvious one. Games sell currency, skins and loot boxes in small amounts that add up quickly, and a saved card makes each one a single tap. Remove saved parent cards from your children's games and app stores. If they want to spend on games, let it come from their own money, with their own card or top-up, so they see the balance fall.
Buy now pay later plans split a purchase into instalments, which makes a S$200 item feel like S$50. Talk to your teenager about how these plans work and how several small plans can add up to one big monthly bill. Credit and debt: scores, cards, loans and BNPL covers this in detail, and lesson 4.3 of that course, Why several small plans become one big problem, is short enough to read together.
Scammers go where teenagers are: games, social media and chat apps. Talk about the patterns before your teenager meets them.
Fake sellers offer rare game items, concert tickets or sneakers at a good price, take the payment and disappear. "Easy money" jobs offer cash for liking posts, or for letting someone use their bank account or Singpass to receive and pass on money. That last one is not a job at all. Letting a stranger use your account to move money can land a young person in serious legal trouble, even if they did not know where the money came from. Messages that look like they come from a game company, a bank or a delivery service ask them to click a link and log in.
Give your teenager one simple rule: if anyone online asks for money, a password, a one-time code or the use of their account, they stop and talk to you first. No questions asked, no punishment for having been tempted. Scam-proof your money covers scams in depth, including ScamShield and how to report one.
Arjun's S$60 game purchase turned into a useful conversation. Priya removed her card and agreed with him that he would manage his own school meals and transport from next month.
Choose one monthly cost your own teenager could take over, and think about how and when the two of you will look at it together each month.
Hand your teenager one monthly cost to manage and agree how you will review it together.
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